The Three Laws of 3somes, 4somes, & Moresomes: Parts 1 & 2

 Multi-partner interactions can be among the most exciting and rewarding sexual experiences, and they can also be among the most awkward and unpleasant.

Part 1 (E1)

We’ll start with the 3 essential rules for creating fulfilling, drama-free, multi-partner “dates” as well as describing what situations and/or initial conditions are almost guaranteed to create a truly memorable disaster.

Those three laws are:
1. Everyone wants to be there.
2. Everyone wants everyone else to be there.
3. Everyone needs to remain aware of everyone else, at least most of the time.

We’ll cover:
• Why do so many fantasize about multi-partner experiences?
• What configurations can a 3some take?
• What’s different about a 4some and a 3some?
• What’s an orgy?
• What are the biggest fears going in to multi-partner play?
• What are the warning signs that “this may be a bad idea…”?
• How do we negotiate boundaries and desires beforehand?
• What are good ways to start the interaction?
• How do I check in with my partner without stopping everything?
• How does one deal with “sex brain” in any of the participants?
• How do I leave in the middle without bringing everything to a halt?
• How can we be sure everyone gets their fill?
• What are good ways to end?
• Why is it a good idea to have a closing cuddle?
• What are the potential effects on my relationships later?

Part 2 (E2/3)

You must take Part 1 earlier in the day to attend this event. Part 2 will be an E2/E3 event, so any E2 must have a mentor attending (and E1's cannot attend Part 2).

In Part 2, we’ll first demonstrate and then put into practice many of the points we covered in Part 1. We’ll be using a combination of games and actual demonstrations to broaden your sensual horizons.

We’ll demo (briefly) a very wide range of possibilities, including using toys. Various physical connections that can only be done with 3 or more people will be explored, as well. In addition, we'd be happy to discuss any other ideas you may be curious about or have experienced.

After demos and Q&A, we’ll break into consensual groups of 3, and we’ll walk you through the following steps. You can participate to whatever level you’re comfortable.

  1. Desires, Boundaries & Fears (~5 minutes each person)

  2. Choose startup method (game or MaT)

  3. Play at E2 for 15 minutes per person

  4. Debrief amongst your triad

  5. With same or new triad, play at E3 for 15 minutes per person

  6. Debrief amongst your triad

You must take Part 1 if you wish to participate in Part 2. If you are E1, you may only attend Part 1.

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